kink does not mean sex

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always disappointed by the guys who measure me, they seem to think am as passionate about sex as they are ... maybe amateur kinksters or just here to get their fricking rocks off? Why does kink have to only mean sex? I'd much rather have a paddling and spanking or be tied up than that
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It’s ok to get your freak on.
If your tastes go beyond the traditional, you’re not alone –
As a society, we’ve started to move past the stigma and shame associated with fetishes and kinks. But not everyone is comfortable exploring their kinkier side, and that can cause serious problems in a relationship.

Mismatched desires can be a relationship-killer, and many people avoid the conversation altogether. Unfortunately, that doesn’t make the problem go away.

If you’re the kinky one in a relationship, it’s up to you to make sure your needs are being fulfilled. Your partner might not be open to trying everything, but you might also be surprised at how receptive they are. Some people need a little encouragement to bring out their freaky side.

It's important to distinguish the difference between kink and sex and okay to set boundaries. While sex isn’t necessarily the most important thing in a relationship, it is a vital component of a healthy romantic partnership.

It may be worth your while seeking other adult chat rooms that cater better for your needs.
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Misszara

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Adie said:
It’s ok to get your freak on.
If your tastes go beyond the traditional, you’re not alone –
As a society, we’ve started to move past the stigma and shame associated with fetishes and kinks. But not everyone is comfortable exploring their kinkier side, and that can cause serious problems in a relationship.

Mismatched desires can be a relationship-killer, and many people avoid the conversation altogether. Unfortunately, that doesn’t make the problem go away.

If you’re the kinky one in a relationship, it’s up to you to make sure your needs are being fulfilled. Your partner might not be open to trying everything, but you might also be surprised at how receptive they are. Some people need a little encouragement to bring out their freaky side.

It's important to distinguish the difference between kink and sex and okay to set boundaries. While sex isn’t necessarily the most important thing in a relationship, it is a vital component of a healthy romantic partnership.

It may be worth your while seeking other adult chat rooms that cater better for your needs.
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Well said x
 
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Misszara

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littleprincess said:
always disappointed by the guys who measure me, they seem to think am as passionate about sex as they are ... maybe amateur kinksters or just here to get their fricking rocks off? Why does kink have to only mean sex? I'd much rather have a paddling and spanking or be tied up than that
Is it me and do I not just get it?
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No it's not just you, hope you find what your looking for x
 
Blueeyeswelshdragon

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Maybe being cock happy is a kink all on its self, not many people are comfortable with fully embraceing theres due to ancient beliefs of how we should govern our selves as people soley out of fear and misconceived notions of kinks being deviant behaviour (dnt get me wrong there are some thing that should never be considered as kink those are down right perverse things) its only in the last decade or less that people have began excepting ppl for who they are of course u will still get fridged stuck up asshole who dont understand someone else way of life all you can do to that effect is try be happy and acceppt u for you and knw there are many other out there that might have the same kink as you or have multiple kinks,
 
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Blueeyeswelshdragon said:
Maybe being cock happy is a kink all on its self, not many people are comfortable with fully embraceing theres due to ancient beliefs of how we should govern our selves as people soley out of fear and misconceived notions of kinks being deviant behaviour (dnt get me wrong there are some thing that should never be considered as kink those are down right perverse things) its only in the last decade or less that people have began excepting ppl for who they are of course u will still get fridged stuck up asshole who dont understand someone else way of life all you can do to that effect is try be happy and acceppt u for you and knw there are many other out there that might have the same kink as you or have multiple kinks,
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Yes x
 
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RopeDom said:
It's not about sex but generally it's still sexual. And as yr probably well aware, there's lots of wannabe's out there. There's lots of arrogant arses too, it is what it is, choose yr friends and playmates well. Not everyone appreciates the finer points of life on the kinky side. There are sites more suited to the kinky side with less botlife and puppetry of the desperate, but this site is always good for a giggle. Just accept the fact that watching 50 shades of shite and beating an arse or two whilst using an summers bondage kit means you can call yrself a Dom these days. It's all good, spread the love, show them the way! Lol
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problem is there is a shortage of kink sites where I can find others from Britain
 
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I did have a profile for about a week, more than a year ago. But I enjoy here better so closed my account x
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Tell me Missy
If We were more local to eachother
Might U meet
Wen allowed x
 
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