No sex for 5 years

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I've not had sex in 5 years. Was in a long term relationship (14 years) but the sex stopped. I stayed with her for 5 year but couldn't take it no more. Been single for 4 months but it's hard to find someone. Its all changed from when I dated. There are too many cons and scams.
 
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HorneyOldMan said:
I've not had sex in 5 years. Was in a long term relationship (14 years) but the sex stopped. I stayed with her for 5 year but couldn't take it no more. Been single for 4 months but it's hard to find someone. Its all changed from when I dated. There are too many cons and scams.
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Like the real world, unless you walk in a bar and get lots of offers, your not going to online, so if that really stunning women, says your the best guy ever maybe think it's not real, but if the average woman says Hi, good chance she's for real unless she wants money, then walk away. Best tip be yourself and don't waste time with BS, if you want just sex say that, if you want a relationship say that. Enjoy
 
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Newburysub said:
Like the real world, unless you walk in a bar and get lots of offers, your not going to online, so if that really stunning women, says your the best guy ever maybe think it's not real, but if the average woman says Hi, good chance she's for real unless she wants money, then walk away. Best tip be yourself and don't waste time with BS, if you want just sex say that, if you want a relationship say that. Enjoy
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I joined a couple of sites and I pick women that I thought were in my league. I don't think I'm much to look at but been told I'm stupid. I've always been honest but seem to get screwed over. So right now I just want sex and I straight forward with that. Its just so strange to me.
 
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Then all most will say, is look at sites where most just want sex, but remember that the guy with the massive cock or great looking will get the pick of the women and the rest just the left over.
 
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HorneyOldMan said:
I joined a couple of sites and I pick women that I thought were in my league. I don't think I'm much to look at but been told I'm stupid. I've always been honest but seem to get screwed over. So right now I just want sex and I straight forward with that. Its just so strange to me.
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Could U inbox me the Sites you have tried or signed up for...
Wre they Actually Any Good??????
 
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B....stards...!!!
What is it with Scamming Money grabbers. ..
Plenty of fakes here
Im thinking of giving up...tbh
 
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SussexGuy47 said:
B....stards...!!!
What is it with Scamming Money grabbers. ..
Plenty of fakes here
Im thinking of giving up...tbh
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I've spoken to one here . The comments I left on post are real woman and they have replied so so far I'm happy here. I'm not expecting any hook ups to be honest if I do it's a bonus. Just happy to chat
 
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SussexGuy47 said:
B....stards...!!!
What is it with Scamming Money grabbers. ..
Plenty of fakes here
Im thinking of giving up...tbh
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There are lots of everyday fakes where ever people are, do I think everyone on the site is 100% real No, but then I don't care as not meeting them all, I talk with a few that have a real life, some good some shit, like most people in life have. I come on look, read and comment, just as someone looks amazing or don't have a photo that's not a problem for me, I've met guys from here that say one thing, but once they had their shag, never come back, it's life.
 
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Then all most will say, is look at sites where most just want sex, but remember that the guy with the massive cock or great looking will get the pick of the women and the rest just the left over.
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Don't have a massive cock and I don't think I'm that good looking so I guess I'm screwed.
 
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I know the feeling. It'll be 18 years this year since I last had sex. Even longer since I had it with the wife! ;)
Pretty well all the "dating" sites are a complete scam. None of them are 100% free (even though they claim to be) and most are filled with fake accounts supposedly belonging to desperate housewives in your area, or nearby. I tested this once on one site by registering two accounts, one in my area and one in another and lo and behold I received the typical "Hi. Love your profile. Wanna chat?" type messages where the profile pic was identical but their claimed location amazingly matched that of each account, so I've pretty well given up for now!
 
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Your post seems a bit harsh on the dating, every site wants to make money and makes it hard to remove your account etc, and they could easy get rid of fake accounts or make it a lot harder by using IP blockers. But is it the sites fault you not had sex. I have no idea how many people have met from here just for sex, but I see lots offering to meet. I wonder what dating sites your looking at, as there are a lot that that do work, there are lots of online forums where people post and meet. If you click on any advert saying looking to fuck women or men in your area then yes expect to pay and why not.
 
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Thanks for your comment newburysub. I take your point, but the fake accounts I was referring to are the ones actually created by the sites in question! :( No, it's not the sites' fault - I just haven't been in the situation where I could establish a rapport with someone and take things further.

About the only site I was on that seemed genuine enough was AdultFriendFinder, but I didn't have any luck there either - even after being on for quite a while! I always try to be up front about being married and the sort of liaison I'm after - maybe I'm too honest! ;)
 
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wmidspaul said:
Thanks for your comment newburysub. I take your point, but the fake accounts I was referring to are the ones actually created by the sites in question! :( No, it's not the sites' fault - I just haven't been in the situation where I could establish a rapport with someone and take things further.

About the only site I was on that seemed genuine enough was AdultFriendFinder, but I didn't have any luck there either - even after being on for quite a while! I always try to be up front about being married and the sort of liaison I'm after - maybe I'm too honest! ;)
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To be honest is the main thing for anyone, then it's up to those that want to meet to decide yes or no.
 
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wmidspaul said:
I know the feeling. It'll be 18 years this year since I last had sex. Even longer since I had it with the wife! ;)
Pretty well all the "dating" sites are a complete scam. None of them are 100% free (even though they claim to be) and most are filled with fake accounts supposedly belonging to desperate housewives in your area, or nearby. I tested this once on one site by registering two accounts, one in my area and one in another and lo and behold I received the typical "Hi. Love your profile. Wanna chat?" type messages where the profile pic was identical but their claimed location amazingly matched that of each account, so I've pretty well given up for now!
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How on earth anyone can live under the same roof and not shag is beyond me.
Fair enough if u live alone and dont get any sex but to live with another person the tension would b too much
 
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