How To Dress Sexy as A Milf with Daughters

ValerieC

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I fear the topic has strayed too far from worrying about my titties and ass causing problems lol
 
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I fear the topic has strayed too far from worrying about my titties and ass causing problems lol
Tbf i think you found the answer from us on here and infact the better option of broaching the subject with them .
 

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This is partly inspired by an Auntie Jane Post, but I've started to wonder if I am having an adverse affect on my daughters confidence, or at least mindset, by how I look, and I have no one else to ask so thought this might be a good place to get some thoughts.

I don't dress especially 'sexy' or revealing in life, pretty normally to be honest, but I do like very tight jeans and tight tops. Not overtly sexual, but I guess you could say due to my small frame and slightly larger than average assets they are emphasised in how I dress.

This makes me feel good, as is obvious, but now my girls are getting older as teenagers they too have started to worry more about what they're wearing and their dress sense has changed over last few months.

I don't know if I'm just being paranoid and feeling like I have more influence than I do, lol, and they're just doing what's normal, and there's more influencial things out there than their mum. I just don't want to be adding to any social pressure by having some big boobs and a tight top lol, because I'll change it up if so.

Any thoughts, please. Thank you.
Well I'm no expert either but I'm sure having an attractive mum who dresses in a way that makes her feel good about her figure whilst not looking like a slut (which is how it came came across from your description) can only be a good thing for your daughters, it is so difficult in this day and age to know what factors are influencing our kids, so I think you are fine the way you are, showing them you are a beautiful confident woman
 

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i think its not important what you wear but wearing it with confidence and self assuredness. i think as a roll model as a mother its more important to express a clear boundary with your choices. my daughters mum (ex wife) basically never grew up and was still wearing jeans and tshirts or trackies (like her brothers). So my daughter hit 13 14 she was trying to be more feminine and with her mother as a roll model she was cutting her jean shorts shorter and shorter to try and be more feminine. when she came to live with me i took her shopping and asked her to try on a dress (other than a wedding dress i have never seen her mother in any thing feminine). as soon as she started to try other clothes on she really got into understanding what her choice was for her femininity. where her mother would have laughed at her in a dress.

so just being confident you is far more important that the actual clothes you wear.

well that my point of view
 
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