Why are you here ?

[Prgun03]

Just a quick one to find out why people are on site and how long have they been here ?

Is it to actually meet or an escape from reality ????

Let me known just inquisitive.

 

[bi-cd-uk]

escape

 

[Full_Moon]

Interesting question. Escape, probably? Not that I'd rule meeting out, and having that 'maybe' there keeps things interesting, but I'm generally on here to flirt and chat.

 

[bi-cd-uk]

or more?

 

[Full_Moon]

What more do you have in mind?

 

[bi-cd-uk]

cum

 

[GrumpyOldishMan]

I return because I have an obsessive compulsive personality

 

[Firefly]

Yeah, OCP is a big part of it.

I first came to chat (a different site in 2020, here in 2021) to try to figure out ways to fix a broken relationship. It was hard getting him to communicate, and I thought I just needed to get more practice talking with men, particularly older men or men who struggle with...things...i did learn a lot and gain a bucketload of wise, strategy and ultimately a gentle way out from the first few years here.

But I also discovered a lot of things that I had forgot I enjoyed. Storytelling and writing. Drawing, photography. Communicating in English. Being really absurd. Also, it was a kind of therapy, a space I could occasionally voice my anxieties or frustrations and give those hard things air and space.

Now it's a fun space to tickle and tango and waste time. Mostly.

As a visitor from outside the UK, meets aren't really on the table.

 

[Ianwxx]

I first joined this site in about 2019 , left and used other sites then re joined again in April 2022. I have been single for a number of years since splitting with my ex and have done quite a bit of chatting and dating over the years with varying degrees of success. Not complaining just giving a honest answer.

On the whole I have found the site to be quite good in respect of giving you the opportunity to chat , flirt , post pics and generally engage in things like the Forums or chat rooms. As with anything sexual or even otherwise it is unlikely that we are all looking for the same thing.

As for meeting this has been raised in other Forums yes it does happen from time to time if people click and it is practical to arrange something , although as the site is called UK Chat as you might expect that is what most come on here for.

Personally I was lucky enough to meet with someone a few years ago , although I am realistic enough to accept that it may never happen again. Used properly this site can be good fun , a bit of escapism , another opportunity to make friends or a mix of all that.

 

[CurvyMelanie88]

My husband and I have had discussions about joining the swinging scene or having either a male or female join us. Whilst I know this isn’t really the best place to look for that sort of thing, we thought we’d come here as a way to interact with like minded people. Also thought it would be better with me registering as, just like on dating apps, men seem to find it difficult to get responses.

Also, I have some confidence issues around how I look. I have been blown away by the lovely comments, in particular in the countdown thread and chat rooms where I’m most active. I am starting to accept that maybe it’s not so bad being of a more curvier persuasion and I am tempted to set up an OnlyFans account. I briefly did OnlyFans and streaming during the 2020 lockdown but due to a lot of negative comments, I stopped.

Finally, and thanks if you have made it this far, whilst we are open to having an additional person or meet a couple, it’s not something we are actively searching for. We did meet another couple from here a few times and that was all arranged through having long conversations that didn’t start with ‘show me your tits and pussy.’ As you may have also seen, I have been very open about dabbling with cocaine and smoking weed. I know that’s not for everyone, but I prefer the honest approach as chances are, if I/we were to meet someone, I would be looking to get some sort of high or buzz to help overcome anxiety.

But really, the main reason for being here is to have some fun, friendly, harmless flirting and sex chat

 

[nobby700]

For me it's definitely a escape and to have some me time,I have a difficult home life and it's a good stress relief, member since may 22

 

[GrumpyOldishMan]

Fascinating responses ladies & gents. Discussions like this are the main reason I come here. I have an insatiable appetite for going beneath the surface and understanding what makes people tick.

Contradictorily - I confess I'm somewhat reticent to share in a public forum.

 

[Magicminx]

I joined after a messy divorce.. Mostly to get my confidence back. Yes I've had a couple of meets here. Won't be doing it again though. Once they have met you they don't bother to acknowledge you after. I just have fun posting pics now.

 

[Ianwxx]

I joined after a messy divorce.. Mostly to get my confidence back. Yes I've had a couple of meets here. Won't be doing it again though. Once they have met you they don't bother to acknowledge you after. I just have fun posting pics now.

Sorry to hear that Magiminx I think that is very bad if someone you met did not have the decency to acknowledge you afterwards , what can be difficult about responding to a message or saying Hi if you are both on line at the same time.

I still have a chat now and again with the lady I met , in fact we did earlier this week.

Arrogant and dismissive behaviour spoils it for everyone , despite my many faults I at least try to treat people how I would like to be treated.

 

[Hedgehog380]

Just a quick one to find out why people are on site and how long have they been here ?

Is it to actually meet or an escape from reality ????

Let me known just inquisitive.

I'm here because back when I first joined a few years back I really enjoyed it and found some people I enjoyed chatting with - and sure, also sexting and stuff, but mostly just being part of the community.

Now I'm back most of those people have left and I'm kind of on the outside so mostly just using the chat room/pics forum when horny if I'm honest.

I miss the old days though

 

[leftwanting]

lesbians

 

[Blueeyes82]

Just a quick one to find out why people are on site and how long have they been here ?

Is it to actually meet or an escape from reality ????

Let me known just inquisitive.

Wanted to find people to chat with, share fantasies and porn links. I’d meet if the opportunity came up and was right but that’s not an aim just a possible extra.
So far I’ve found nobody, if I have it’s lasted 2 or 3 messages then that’s it even after finding out we have mutual interests

 

[HardAnal]

Fascinating responses ladies & gents. Discussions like this are the main reason I come here. I have an insatiable appetite for going beneath the surface and understanding what makes people tick.

Contradictorily - I confess I'm somewhat reticent to share in a public forum.

Snap...

 

[Blueeyes82]

Would be good for everyone who replied to this post to follow and PM each other so we can all give each other what we’re after on here

 

[RedKnight99]

I'm only been here for a few months, I found this place one day when I was trying to find someone to share some online fun with but not meet as I'm pretty trapped in my current situation. I stuck around because of a combination of escapism and my own slight OCP traits.