When is cheating okay

[Footlicker12]

Hi it's a tough one I haven't had sex for 11 years married to a great woman but no intimacy due to wife's ailments it's been hard but the no sex is starting to drive me crazy would it be wrong to find some one for nsa or pay for it even i don't want to hurt her but I miss sex and the cuddling after I've had chances but always said no due to guilt need advice thanks

 

[Mantrucker]

Ever told your wife how you feel?

 

[LongJohnCucker]

If there isn't any action happening what's the harm in taking it elsewhere? ..

If you aren't having sex she's not gonna get an STD or anything.

 

[fulldan]

I guess for her its about "maintenance" sex just because its something you need rather than her wanting it. These days there are other women who want to take advantage of guys in that position and give them what they want. I'm in the same boat myself. So now there is just more "self service"