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MoralCrusader

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OK I know it' a sex chat room... Well I'm 46 and have spent the past 20+ years in a happy monogamous relationship until she didn't wake up one morning about a year ago. I have never used a chat room nor online dating until Saturday. It's been a nightmare for many reasons. It' am hard to believe with all the amazing technological advancements we have made in the field of communication and in a world of nearly 8 billion people it is so hard to find someone to talk to. Caution is necessary, I understand that, but the fakery and profiteering which take place just stops people potentially making positive connections with others. Which in turn makes people more cynical and reluctant to find people I the virtual environments they create....wow, sorry.

So I just want to have a reasonable conversation with an intelligent woman with a good sense of humour to get me off and running, or at least I hope.

I don't want pity, just some banter and a laugh if there are any takers,message me. Thank you.
 

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I was kind of wondering about the name.

Welcome to the Funhouse. Yes there is a lot of wow! :p what!;) no seriously, what!??:oops:! and scammers or whatever here, but as in all things: be yourself and be golden. All sorts of bugs are attracted to the light.

It can take some time trying to figure out your groove, but you'll get there. You always do❤
 

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As fun as this place is, nothing beats physical socialising. Not sure where you are from but if you want to go grab a drink, shoot the breeze, flirt with some lovely women out there, let me know.
I like this forum for daily surprises from certain people, funny stuff from others and silly stuff from some. All in all, bunch of good people here. Others you need to take with a pinch of salt.
 

MoralCrusader

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As fun as this place is, nothing beats physical socialising. Not sure where you are from but if you want to go grab a drink, shoot the breeze, flirt with some lovely women out there, let me know.
I like this forum for daily surprises from certain people, funny stuff from others and silly stuff from some. All in all, bunch of good people here. Others you need to take with a pinch of salt.
Hi Nathan,

You seem half sensible, you from the UK? Thing is, I'm not looking for a hook up nor a relationship it's complicated. My partner died suddenly this time last year. I'm just lonely. Never done any of this online malarkey and it is a minefield. I've lost money, time and patience. What the fuck is the world coming to scammers a plenty? Kik (which I have been a member of for 48HRS) is perilous. 80 odd bogus fishing messages already. Women blatantly selling sex, surely that's illegal.
I was kind of wondering about the name.

Welcome to the Funhouse. Yes there is a lot of wow! :p what!;) no seriously, what!??:oops:! and scammers or whatever here, but as in all things: be yourself and be golden. All sorts of bugs are attracted to the light.

It can take some time trying to figure out your groove, but you'll get there. You always do❤
Thank you, in the main sound advice it would seem. I appreciate you taking the time to reply.
 

MoralCrusader

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Hi Nathan,

You seem half sensible, you from the UK? Thing is, I'm not looking for a hook up nor a relationship it's complicated. My partner died suddenly this time last year. I'm just lonely. Never done any of this online malarkey and it is a minefield. I've lost money, time and patience. What the fuck is the world coming to scammers a plenty? Kik (which I have been a member of for 48HRS) is perilous. 80 odd bogus fishing messages already. Women blatantly selling sex, surely that's illegal.

Thank you, in the main sound advice it would seem. I appreciate you taking the time to reply.
What's wrong with the name?
 
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SussexGuy47

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You seem a busy guy on here. A seasoned pro. I would be grateful for some of the pearls of your wisdom.
Watch out for FAKES an Snakes...
Quite alot Are fleeting glimpses
In my humble view...
Not many are here to meet..
Despite hearing many stories. ...there is ALOT of fantasy played out on here..
Lots of Maybes...Could do s
But Never any REAL Action..
 

MoralCrusader

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In my limited experience, I concur, but it's not just here, it's a virus plaguing the all these apps and sites. Unregulated, difficult to navigate. So far Kik seems the worst. I've been a member 48hrs and had 80 scammers, or so it would seem and one threat .
 
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SussexGuy47

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In my limited experience, I concur, but it's not just here, it's a virus plaguing the all these apps and sites. Unregulated, difficult to navigate. So far Kik seems the worst. I've been a member 48hrs and had 80 scammers, or so it would seem and one threat .
Don't use KIK
Totally full of scammers an more Fakes than Anywhere..
 
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Sparky54

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Hi there, not sympathy but very sorry to hear that about your relationship. I’m guessing from the way you write you loved her very much. Be patient, be yourself and there’s always a chance of finding someone. I think it’s more when we pretend to be someone or something were not nothing happens. All the best though.
 
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Sparky54

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I wouldn’t quite say I give advice just an encouraging word maybe.
 
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