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BBW1986

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Thank you, I do try but omg it's so hard haha! ❤️
Isn't it :)
Practice and practice and practice (that's the fun part) until you start to recognise your own bodies responses on the build up to an orgasm, have a word with yourself lol, then let your hands, or toys, or partner wander. Travel slowly around your body, you're almost certain to find out new spots that feel good. Stay there a while then head back to where you want to be, recognise when you need to show down and actually do it lol
Change the setting on toys too, even when you might want them higher - start slow and more gentle than normal.
Having said all that, it should never stop being a whole load of fun ♡
 

Geordiecouple

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Girls -boys can weigh in here too, if they have relevant experience ;) How do you make yourself...last. I'm terrible, I cum way too quickly and I really want to try and pace myself. I do read erotica and watch porn to get myself in the mood. Any tips here? ♥️ MWAH!
My gf has the same problem and I take all the credit for it lol
Slowing down helps or switching from one area to another so from clit to boobs
 

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Girls -boys can weigh in here too, if they have relevant experience ;) How do you make yourself...last. I'm terrible, I cum way too quickly and I really want to try and pace myself. I do read erotica and watch porn to get myself in the mood. Any tips here? ♥️ MWAH!
One of the tricks is having your partner read you, as in feeling that you going to cum and back off a little to hold you near but not allow you to cum, letting your partner control the level helps, also need someone who understands how to do that as well instead of just going hell for leather. Doing oral is a good way of telling ,you can tell when someone is getting close you can then control what you do to make sure you don't. Then after your absolutely at the end you will really orgasm, you will be able to tell the difference.
 
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Girls -boys can weigh in here too, if they have relevant experience ;) How do you make yourself...last. I'm terrible, I cum way too quickly and I really want to try and pace myself. I do read erotica and watch porn to get myself in the mood. Any tips here? ♥️ MWAH!
Have your partner learn your signs off when youre getting close to orgasm then have him, or her, tie you up so he can pleasure you but not let you cum until you're literally quivering, then go all the way!
 
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