New kinky chap

[Rubberist]

Hi to anyone reading this!

I’m a recent member to the site, although I’ve used it as a guest for a while.
I’m interested in exploring my kinky side some more with likeminded people. I love all kinds of dressing up, roleplaying, fetish wear. I’ve experienced some BDSM before and I am keen to try more with someone who knows what they are doing.

I’m bi but I don’t have a great deal of experience with guys. Yet. My ideal scenario would be to find a kinky couple already into the fetish scene.

I’m always happy to chat about pretty much anything, I love talking fantasies but that doesn’t mean it always has to be cyber chat, I prefer getting to know people and making friends who share interests.

 

[DirtyOldBastard]

There's a site called 'FetLife' that caters to a large fetish & BDSM community - you may find more like-minded people there.

This site is good for chat and general naughtiness, with some good people, and sadly some scammers and pretenders.

 

[Rubberist]

I do have an account on there, too.
I find it a bit impersonal, though. Seem to be a lot of professionals using it to promote themselves. Which is fine (and nice to look at!) but not always easy to find friends.

 

[DirtyOldBastard]

I have to admit I was on there, but not any more. It was best for finding local munches where you can meet and get to know other kinksters, I got tired of all the attention seekers and players, so left.

 

[Rubberist]

Yeah, sadly that seems to be the internet in general!
I’ve been at the edges of the fet scene for a while, and the genuine people all seem to be lovely, but there are a LOT of pretenders. I blame 50 Shades of Grey