My messages to people are going grey and i also cant see userlist at the side of page?

[Scotty10]

My messages when j post go great?

 

[AdyShaw48]

Go to the Community Help Forum (bottom of the home page). In there you will find this post 'Current disconnection and pending issues'
A lot of us have been having issues. If you report your issues there, it will help the admin team to sole the issue quicker