Male nipple play...

[Tinitus]

A bit of a funny question for everyone. I find it odd when a girl licks or sucks on my nipples - I don't complain - but it doesn't really do much for me. Is that the same for most guys out there? In which case this is a PSA for all you girls. Or am I just the boring one?

My little pet theory is it's sort of a quid pro quo thing because most girls I know love nipple play.

 

[Firefly]

I think it varies from person to person (PSA, and not just for men for women as well). a bit like ball play, some guys love it some guys hate it like claws on a chalkboard hate it and some guys don't really care one way or the other.

Sex and play is never a one size fits all. Personally, I love playing with men's nipples and balls so when I meet men who aren't really into either of those things I know it's going to be a tricky fit. But it's always fun to discover the mutually satisfying things, i have found it's a great way to learn more about myself.

 

[Tinitus]

Hi Firefly, thanks so much for your thoughtful reply!

Maybe I should just learn to communicate with my partners better I suppose. I think I'm too much of a people pleaser, don't want to stop you if it's getting you going.

It surprises me to hear some men don't like ball play. I absolutely love having mine fondled, tickled or sucked. So nice.

I suppose you're right that it's very idiosyncratic. It's a little narcissistic of me to think my own experience would be the universal experience of all men.

Your point about discovering mutually satisfying things is well taken too. I think people often play around because they're looking for novelty. But if you have a partner who's good at communicating. You can have a world of fun.

Tysm for your intelligent and considered response - it's pushed that silly little pet theory out of my head anyway!