I'm addicted to this site

[Sarah1984]

And I don't think it's a good thing!

I chat to people on here and they make me feel really sexy, and that feeling is really addictive! That's not to say my partner doesn't make me feel sexy! But it's starting to feel like I'm cheating, also, it makes me feel like I'm just being a tease, because essentially that's exactly what I'm doing!

I've discussed this quite openly with the people I talk to and they don't seem to mind me just teasing but it just feels like the wrong thing to do... But... I still like it!

Discuss!

 

[CurvyMelanie88]

And I don't think it's a good thing!

I chat to people on here and they make me feel really sexy, and that feeling is really addictive! That's not to say my partner doesn't make me feel sexy! But it's starting to feel like I'm cheating, also, it makes me feel like I'm just being a tease, because essentially that's exactly what I'm doing!

I've discussed this quite openly with the people I talk to and they don't seem to mind me just teasing but it just feels like the wrong thing to do... But... I still like it!

Discuss!

I know how you feel. I love to flirt and tease. Do I feel like I’m cheating? No. Is it just some harmless fun? Of course it is!!

 

[nobby700]

i don't see any problem with that,as long as it's fun and no one gets hurt enjoy the experience

 

[SussexGuy47]

And I don't think it's a good thing!

I chat to people on here and they make me feel really sexy, and that feeling is really addictive! That's not to say my partner doesn't make me feel sexy! But it's starting to feel like I'm cheating, also, it makes me feel like I'm just being a tease, because essentially that's exactly what I'm doing!

I've discussed this quite openly with the people I talk to and they don't seem to mind me just teasing but it just feels like the wrong thing to do... But... I still like it!

Discuss!

I think
Do what ever makes U feel happy..x

 

[johnrafferty]

And I don't think it's a good thing!

I chat to people on here and they make me feel really sexy, and that feeling is really addictive! That's not to say my partner doesn't make me feel sexy! But it's starting to feel like I'm cheating, also, it makes me feel like I'm just being a tease, because essentially that's exactly what I'm doing!

I've discussed this quite openly with the people I talk to and they don't seem to mind me just teasing but it just feels like the wrong thing to do... But... I still like it!

Discuss!

Harmless fun probably you talk about things on here that you wouldn’t take to your partner about

 

[Driver74]

Nothing wrong with a bit of window shopping

 

[Laidbackhorizontal]

You may be asking the wrong audience, fundamentally we’re all here to tease and be teased.
So carry on I guess.

 

[garygirth]

If it makes you feel good then carry on

 

[Sonata70]

And I don't think it's a good thing!

I chat to people on here and they make me feel really sexy, and that feeling is really addictive! That's not to say my partner doesn't make me feel sexy! But it's starting to feel like I'm cheating, also, it makes me feel like I'm just being a tease, because essentially that's exactly what I'm doing!

I've discussed this quite openly with the people I talk to and they don't seem to mind me just teasing but it just feels like the wrong thing to do... But... I still like it!

Discuss!

I think I’m addicted to sites like this, I just love telling people what I’ve done to my wife And getting their reactions

 

[Firefly]

It is a big question, when does self-satisfaction become betrayal?

If you look at other aspects of your relationship, are there things your partner doesn't supply 100% ?
For example, do you sometimes consult your mum or friends about things you are thinking about?
Do you turn to or accept outside sources of financial support? For example, accepting an air fryer your "brother " bought...or work so that you maintain financial independence?
How about haircuts?
I remember one time [years ago, when I didn't hate him anyway] my ex as going out and I asked, 'where are you off to?' and he said 'out'. I thought, oh, that is kind of cryptic and rude but fine if he doesn't want to say, it clearly isn't important. A few hours later he came back with a new haircut. And I felt betrayed. He could have just said, 'Im going for a haircut' But instead he kept is a secret. And even though, it was a completely unimportant act of self-satisfaction that would have had nothing to do with me anyway, I felt deceived and betrayed and disrespected.

The moral of the story: it is rare that a partner provides 100% of the things you need. And that's okay to admit. But you can tell them that. If you have respect for them and hope that they also feel 'paid attention to'

Discussing it with the hairdresser is one thing. But you might also want to discuss it with your partner, if you are worried about their feeling betrayed. I recommend starting by opening up the topic of perhaps pornography, and then chat sites, influencers and attention-seeking before coming to your own involvement and motivations for engaging it.

 

[shambles925]

And I don't think it's a good thing!

I chat to people on here and they make me feel really sexy, and that feeling is really addictive! That's not to say my partner doesn't make me feel sexy! But it's starting to feel like I'm cheating, also, it makes me feel like I'm just being a tease, because essentially that's exactly what I'm doing!

I've discussed this quite openly with the people I talk to and they don't seem to mind me just teasing but it just feels like the wrong thing to do... But... I still like it!

Discuss!

I’d say if it makes you feel good about yourself and sexy for both yourself and your partner then you’re both going to get a benefit from you being in here.
The other great part of that is that the rest of us benefit from your teasing so thank you.

 

[GrumpyOldishMan]

And I don't think it's a good thing!

I chat to people on here and they make me feel really sexy, and that feeling is really addictive! That's not to say my partner doesn't make me feel sexy! But it's starting to feel like I'm cheating, also, it makes me feel like I'm just being a tease, because essentially that's exactly what I'm doing!

I've discussed this quite openly with the people I talk to and they don't seem to mind me just teasing but it just feels like the wrong thing to do... But... I still like it!

Discuss!

My two-penneth .....

Is it preventing you doing other things you'd like to be doing?

Is it adversely impacting your real-life relationships?

Are you developing any repetitive strain injuries?


If you can answer NO to the above - then crack on.