Help/advice

[AronLomas]

Does anyone else feel ashamed/addicted to online sex etc? To the point where you want to kill yourself because you're worried what others think if something leaked? Or the umpteenth time where you try to stop but can't resist? Even after being conned/wasting money or blackmailed so many times. And it affecting your outlook on sex and relationship s.

This is where I am. Have been for the last 5 years. On and off constantly trying to stop. I'm 28 years old with Asperger's. I have been single all of my life. I don't think I'm good enough. No matter what my mates say. I just think offing myself is the only way. I have tried therapy and CBT but it never sticks.

Typical now I'm crying whilst writing this.

 

[Adie]

Be strong. Don't think any one gets things right. There is no rules book to life.
It's easy to get adicted to anything.
Just try and stay safe on line.
Perhaps try and limit the amount of time you visit Adult sites.
The important thing to remember is it's supposed to be fun.
Take care sending happy vibes your way.

 

[bloodhoney]

Does anyone else feel ashamed/addicted to online sex etc? To the point where you want to kill yourself because you're worried what others think if something leaked? Or the umpteenth time where you try to stop but can't resist? Even after being conned/wasting money or blackmailed so many times. And it affecting your outlook on sex and relationship s.

This is where I am. Have been for the last 5 years. On and off constantly trying to stop. I'm 28 years old with Asperger's. I have been single all of my life. I don't think I'm good enough. No matter what my mates say. I just think offing myself is the only way. I have tried therapy and CBT but it never sticks.

Typical now I'm crying whilst writing this.

The most important thing with adult sites is to have fun- if you've got to the point where it's not fun anymore then you should consider whether to take a break or if its right for you at all x

Stay strong and reach out to people - it's the hardest thing but talk. If you feel you can't talk to anyone in real life, try and reach out to a service who can help or an online friend x

I know it feels insurmountable but it's not x