Dating Advice

Should I risk it?


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ShySissyGrace

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I was scrolling on a gay dating app and came across someone I know. A colleague from work, who is fit. I was tempted to send a message but no one who knows me, knows that I do this and obviously showing myself to someone like that could end up with me becoming known to everyone. The guy in question does have a GF though, so I'm guessing he also has a secret to keep. What do you guys think?
 
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I was scrolling on a gay dating app and came across someone I know. A colleague from work, who is fit. I was tempted to send a message but no one who knows me, knows that I do this and obviously showing myself to someone like that could end up with me becoming known to everyone. The guy in question does have a GF though, so I'm guessing he also has a secret to keep. What do you guys think?
Do it….live for now❤️
 

Upallknight999

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From a purely practical viewpoint probably not wise.

Firstly he has a girlfriend who I assume is unaware of his activities, (ignoring the morality of an affair) this may mean he is less likely to tell anyone if you hook up but it also makes the situation messy if he does get caught cheating. This isn't about dating it's about fucking.. he is already dating a girl.

There is also still the fact that you work with him, and that sleeping with colleagues ( or trying to) can make things awkward at work especially if it goes south.

"Don't shit where you eat"

Ultimately the decision is yours. How much do you want to fuck this guy and what are you willing to risk to blow your load into a guy who isn't exactly trustworthy material.
 
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