Anyone Else Feel This?

[BoredandWelsh]

I am a straight married guy with kids and I have never cheated in my life. I love my Wife and I am very lucky but this is always a constant itch that needs scratching. I do not class myself as bi. I have watched gay porn and it does nothing for me. I do not fancy guys at all and I love women. For me personally, I could never kiss or lay naked with a guy. I could never fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy. I could never finger a guys arse or rim. I could never suck but the thought of getting a guy hard and wanking him off and vice versa really turns me on. Who knows? I may hate it but I am gagging to try it. The problem is, I usually chat to guys who want more or are convinced that when I am with them I will be too horny to turn anything down but I know for a fact it is all about the wanking only. I have so much to lose and the risk is massive and it is so hard to find a similar, 'straight' married guy, who is normal, fussy, clean, hygenic, looking for exactly the same, in a safe, incredibly discreet, private, secret manner, for no strings attached fun exploring wanking each other, with no pressure, no rushing and no stress if either changes their mind at any point. I do not even like cum! Lol! Happy to have a guy shoot his load over my hand as I wank him off but I do not want it in my mouth, on my face or on my body. I honestly thought I was in the minority but so refreshing to see I am not the only one with these feelings. Just the thought of meeting in a hotel room, chatting, getting to know each other, making each other relaxed and comfortable, before running my hand over a guys package before lowering his bottoms and fondling his bulge through his boxers before slipping it out and feeling it get erect in my hand. Slowly wanking from the tip to the shaft, hearing him moan as I look at the pleasure on his face knowing how good I was making him feel. Before I start wanking him harder and more vigorously until he explodes his hot sticky spunk. Feeling his cock twitch and pulsate in my hand, not stopping until I have drained his balls and every last bit of cum is out. Well, that is the fantasy anyway. Even if there was a chance of doing this, most hotels only take card payment and I have a joint account with the Wife, so think this will unfortunately remain in the wank bank.

 

[JA1979]

I'm feeling kinda similar to you mate. There are a few differences but generally it's the same. The joint account stuff is DEFINITELY the same so that puts a dampener on things, Lol, which sucks... I thought I was in the minority until reading the posts on here too.... Good to know we're not alone...

 

[Biwish69]

Diagnosed with Gender Dysphoria at an early age. Mixed emotions about alot of things, married for over 30yrs. Always had many feelings about my own sexual journey. None of my family know. On the one hand very very lucky to have the life I have. Great family, Great wife. Good health BUT when you have these feelings all your life and have spent time in various forms of therapy. Its is sites like this that help and a few toys of course

 

[Coastalmammal]

Soul brother……….let’s pm together. I’ll start.

 

[Biwish69]

Ok short on time. Family house manager about to arrive home so don't want to mess you around ok

 

[Biwish69]

If you start chat when you are ready, and hopefully we will be on together.but thank you for getting in touch speak soon

 

[joannetvcd]

How about someone like me..? xxx

 

[Biwish69]

How about someone like me..? xxx

Hi happy to chat PM if you are. A little busy at the moment tea time etc if you would like to start. Will reply later, ok but didn't want to mess you around if you are expecting a reply straight away

 

[JA1979]

Diagnosed with Gender Dysphoria at an early age. Mixed emotions about alot of things, married for over 30yrs. Always had many feelings about my own sexual journey. None of my family know. On the one hand very very lucky to have the life I have. Great family, Great wife. Good health BUT when you have these feelings all your life and have spent time in various forms of therapy. Its is sites like this that help and a few toys of course

The great family stuff and life I've got I agree wholeheartedly on. I've made some mistakes in the past so for them to still be around is amazing. BUT these feelings are strong and are growing ever stronger, so to have other folks on here to chat too is awesome... PM me anytime and I'll reply when as soon as I can...

 

[ShowAllStu]

Im married but have done stuff years ago. I still get turned on by bi stuff and like looking and swapping cock pics

 

[guywontcheat]

New, so not sure on the etiquette, if I need to message here in the thread first before a PM, but, I did send a PM , would be interested to chat.

 

[ShowAllStu]

New, so not sure on the etiquette, if I need to message here in the thread first before a PM, but, I did send a PM , would be interested to chat.

I’ll pm if you want

 

[guywontcheat]

Sorry, I meant I'd sent a PM to the original poster.

 

[ShowAllStu]

Sorry, I meant I'd sent a PM to the original poster.

Ok shame

 

[Firefly]

he thought of getting a guy hard and wanking him off and vice versa really turns me on

yum. I totally get this. Even as a woman. Me too. There are times I just want a cock to play with. Doesn't really matter who it is attached to. I don't want to be touched, i don't even want to get undressed. (is that selfish? haha. Probably)

I usually chat to guys who want more or are convinced that when I am with them I will be too horny to turn anything down but I know for a fact it is all about the wanking only.

Yup. The pain is real. If only men knew how to listen to and respect other people's stated boundaries.

But that is a generalization.

There are definitely men who enjoy just that. That intimate moment without asking for more. Just takes time to make the connection, establish a friendship. It also takes you standing firm in your "No". You are allowed to say "no" or "enough" at any point. A partner/playmate who doesn't respect that is being manipulative or abusive. Call them out on it.

Even if, after starting something you think you might be horny for something more. If you started out with it being a "no", insist on that no. End the session, calm down and talk about the possibility of more, next time. That is the joy of not dying, there is always a possibility for next time. Even if the next time is with a different person, you can end the session knowing that your respected your own boundaries, and insisted others do too.

 

[Biwish69]

There is a saying that is written
Be kind to those that you meet,
They are fighting personal battles,
That you know nothing of.

Respect is everything for everyone

 

[NewBluOnTheBlock]

I am a straight married guy with kids and I have never cheated in my life. I love my Wife and I am very lucky but this is always a constant itch that needs scratching. I do not class myself as bi. I have watched gay porn and it does nothing for me. I do not fancy guys at all and I love women. For me personally, I could never kiss or lay naked with a guy. I could never fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy. I could never finger a guys arse or rim. I could never suck but the thought of getting a guy hard and wanking him off and vice versa really turns me on. Who knows? I may hate it but I am gagging to try it. The problem is, I usually chat to guys who want more or are convinced that when I am with them I will be too horny to turn anything down but I know for a fact it is all about the wanking only. I have so much to lose and the risk is massive and it is so hard to find a similar, 'straight' married guy, who is normal, fussy, clean, hygenic, looking for exactly the same, in a safe, incredibly discreet, private, secret manner, for no strings attached fun exploring wanking each other, with no pressure, no rushing and no stress if either changes their mind at any point. I do not even like cum! Lol! Happy to have a guy shoot his load over my hand as I wank him off but I do not want it in my mouth, on my face or on my body. I honestly thought I was in the minority but so refreshing to see I am not the only one with these feelings. Just the thought of meeting in a hotel room, chatting, getting to know each other, making each other relaxed and comfortable, before running my hand over a guys package before lowering his bottoms and fondling his bulge through his boxers before slipping it out and feeling it get erect in my hand. Slowly wanking from the tip to the shaft, hearing him moan as I look at the pleasure on his face knowing how good I was making him feel. Before I start wanking him harder and more vigorously until he explodes his hot sticky spunk. Feeling his cock twitch and pulsate in my hand, not stopping until I have drained his balls and every last bit of cum is out. Well, that is the fantasy anyway. Even if there was a chance of doing this, most hotels only take card payment and I have a joint account with the Wife, so think this will unfortunately remain in the wank bank.

So I'm a straight guy too, should we make this happen? I'm pretty much only after the same as you

 

[Jt1]

I am a straight married guy with kids and I have never cheated in my life. I love my Wife and I am very lucky but this is always a constant itch that needs scratching. I do not class myself as bi. I have watched gay porn and it does nothing for me. I do not fancy guys at all and I love women. For me personally, I could never kiss or lay naked with a guy. I could never fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy. I could never finger a guys arse or rim. I could never suck but the thought of getting a guy hard and wanking him off and vice versa really turns me on. Who knows? I may hate it but I am gagging to try it. The problem is, I usually chat to guys who want more or are convinced that when I am with them I will be too horny to turn anything down but I know for a fact it is all about the wanking only. I have so much to lose and the risk is massive and it is so hard to find a similar, 'straight' married guy, who is normal, fussy, clean, hygenic, looking for exactly the same, in a safe, incredibly discreet, private, secret manner, for no strings attached fun exploring wanking each other, with no pressure, no rushing and no stress if either changes their mind at any point. I do not even like cum! Lol! Happy to have a guy shoot his load over my hand as I wank him off but I do not want it in my mouth, on my face or on my body. I honestly thought I was in the minority but so refreshing to see I am not the only one with these feelings. Just the thought of meeting in a hotel room, chatting, getting to know each other, making each other relaxed and comfortable, before running my hand over a guys package before lowering his bottoms and fondling his bulge through his boxers before slipping it out and feeling it get erect in my hand. Slowly wanking from the tip to the shaft, hearing him moan as I look at the pleasure on his face knowing how good I was making him feel. Before I start wanking him harder and more vigorously until he explodes his hot sticky spunk. Feeling his cock twitch and pulsate in my hand, not stopping until I have drained his balls and every last bit of cum is out. Well, that is the fantasy anyway. Even if there was a chance of doing this, most hotels only take card payment and I have a joint account with the Wife, so think this will unfortunately remain in the wank bank.

Exactly the same here too , although I just have a huge urge to suck a cock not just wank him.
Absolutely no attraction at all and never looked at a guy and been remotely attracted.

 

[rockdc]

Exactly the same here too , although I just have a huge urge to suck a cock not just wank him.
Absolutely no attraction at all and never looked at a guy and been remotely attracted.

Totally agree with this

 

[Tohigh2horny]

I'm similar, although I do like to suck cock. I'm married with kids and totally happy, wife and I have a great sex life. She's naughty and likes to do everything I want and I love to do to her everything she wants but I also like someone else's cock. Especially while she's cowboy. I just love the thought of pleasuring both at the same time.