I've went to Ab Fabs and Hellfire a few years ago when in a different relationship. Be prepared to be way younger than almost everyone else there (we were early 40's and one of the youngest, especially at Ab Fabs) but most ppl are friendly and even the creeps listen to a firm no.
The vibe is...
Yes, was parked up in a field getting a bj when a giant tractor pulled up behind us. We were blocking his way and had to move the car but I imagine he enjoyed the view as he drove past