Hello DB, I did try to send you some links (not allowed on UKC) to a spanking site here in the UK they are on the modelling site Purpleport and are called Inveigle. They have a web site if you type "Asa Jones spanking studio" into Google it comes up as an Emporium. Hope you don't mind me giving...
@Vimto74 It's something you have to learn for yourself, there are spies all over the web, looking for information on how to get around things and putting them to use for their own ends. Sad and no help to you I know but this is what you find.
[edit] This applies to every classified site, every...
It depends entirely on where and how you word your request. Do not reply to obvious scams, one does have to learn how to use the site to ones advantage. Do keep trying you will be rewarded in the end. :-)