For me that’s after initial attraction… if something is going to work long term, you want that intelligence, you want to be able to have deeper conversations but also you want to have a laugh♂️ life is all about having fun at the end of the day and enjoying it, as much as you can
Attraction has to start with looks right… also I disagree, and say you are. I don’t know if I’m interested to find out where or worried that you know and you could knock me out before hand. Could wake up in all sorts of trouble