If it makes you happy, and you're in control of your giving of control, then there's nothing wrong with that at all.
I've had a fair range of sub partners, from brats to the completely obedient. I have my preferences, and like the variety, but ownership and having my partner give themself to me...
I think I'd be a little disappointed to find out that the colleagues I have suspicions about are actually straight laced and vanilla. Far more fun to dream.
Love discovering a kinky secret from someone you wouldn't expect, though. Got to happen once or twice.
So, we all know that lingerie is the standard for sexy - to the point at which just seeing it can be visual shorthand for sex itself.
But what what would be the equivalent for a man to wear for you? Or should we, in fact, be investing in a bit of lace ourselves?
Always fancied being seduced into something wild by a hot older woman. Late teens-20s, I doubt I could have resisted for long. No longer in my 20s, so sadly not cougar-bait anymore.
Definitely not something I care about. For me it's around 20? For her, I've never asked!
For my ex, I think we talked about it once, and it was around 50 or 60.