Patience .. it takes a lot of time (and effort) to find a genuine couple & you have to be willing to go outside 'local'. I had a couple I used to visit regularly in Kent (I'm Oxford). That was before lockdown knocked it on the head. I remain ever hopeful tho.
So horny remembering first times. My mate Andy had got involved with a break-time talk about wanking & who'd done it. They asked him and he said, of course, even though he hadn't. On our way home he told me about the conversation and asked if I'd tried. I said, truthfully, yes. So he dared me to...