I am same mate. I like the idea of wanking buddy, sharing the time with another dude what guys do privately and enjoy the porn and wank. No touch, just wank, porn, joy and nice chat. OK for online if you want.
It's in my list to do. I prefer mff but happy to join couples MMF. My brother invited me for one with him MMF but I didn't want to do it. I get shy and left, no i regret it.