I done it a few times and it was very enjoyable, but I find it hard to find sites.
Some sites pop up and then just disappear as locals find out about it.
They used to have some good barmen would very tactfully removed someone who was spoiling others enjoyment but it was never that bad, just high spirits. I look back on it with fondness, some girls just did it for the money, I liked doing it xxx.
There were some great times and people, real characters form comedians, singers and live bands.
Down sides, cigarette smoke, and a few young men who had too much beer.
Well I have to admit I was a stripper for about thirty years, I used to perform in workingmen's clubs over the weekends and most of my experiences where positive and sexy. I have to admit I miss the buzz of a good workingman's club.
As much as it sounds very sexy your mother-in-law is going through a personal crisis in her relationships and self image.
If you do have sex with her in months to come, she will only regret betraying her daughter and it would make matters a lot worse for her and you. I would suggest she gets out...
I don't spit as such but when I give oral sex I drool and saliva does come out of my mouth.
I don't do it deliberately but it does escape from the corners of my mouth.