I've measured it twice. Once because I wanted to know what size it was when I first found out I was considered to be very big. The second time was after losing a bunch of weight and I wanted to see if it made a difference to my dick size. It didn't but I think it looks bigger on a leaner body.
Just to talk to people (primarily women). I think my expectations have been met, but I'd welcome more interaction.
I don't feel comfortable reaching out to women anymore, because I feel like women get more than enough attention without me messaging them as well. I prefer to let them message me...