I am chatting lol, just had to turn off dms , I was getting 50+ really filthy messages every day, and as much as you are correct this being a chat forum, I am here for a bit of fun, not to be talked too like a piece of meat . Happy to talk here though sweetie .
I can't send you a DM your settings need changing, how come you don't want to chat here it's a chat forum lol