DO WOMEN ACTUALLY READ OR REPLY ON HERE???

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I see men still replying on posts sent by women from months or even years ago !!! ( yes guys look at first message and shows when it was sent !!!! ) but never actually see any replies from women do women not use forums ??? I was thinking would be a better way to meet the nicer genuine guys on here like myself lol
 

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I see men still replying on posts sent by women from months or even years ago !!! ( yes guys look at first message and shows when it was sent !!!! ) but never actually see any replies from women do women not use forums ??? I was thinking would be a better way to meet the nicer genuine guys on here like myself lol
Yes…

….BUT!!

Firstly, you need to think about what you are posting, secondly, consider this:

You are one of many hundreds of men on this site, every woman has hundreds if not thousands of messages a day from men who are:
A) abusive
B) Weird
C) Not their criteria
D) desperate
E) Hundreds of reasons

If you look at a lot of messages I put out publicly and with the struggles I have - I’m considered mentally disabled but it doesn’t affect my intellect (I’m the opposite - very intelligent), you’d see what I am up against and on this site, you can be

1) intelligent
2) good looking
3) rich
4) nice
5) every other desirable quality

And still get nowhere because there is always a lot of bad users on this site. Some also are on this site as they don’t want anyone, they are married and want attention from other guys (please enlighten me to why). Whatever you do, you won’t get that person away from who they are with.

Remember also, this is the internet, users pretend to be who they want, the phrase “buyer beware” comes to mind. If you have a vulnerability, people with, especially with money. (Good job I’m keeping mine to myself).

Whatever view you have about this site and treat it like internet dating in some respects, you are going to be really disappointed.
The fact is that most people don’t meet and don’t want to meet is a good start.

I’ve been on this site for FOUR years, I’ve not met a single person from here and I’m pretty sure a lot of others are the same.

As for long gone and dead threads, they probably sift through a lot of pages in share your pics or use the search function and don’t bother to look at the date, plus are too busy responding and not thinking. Don’t forget, people can come and go as they please, so that member may not be on the forum for ages. Again, don’t read into too much with what’s posted.

If there is one piece of advice I have, it sounds strange, but you are likely to get more attention from the men than the ladies in my experience
 
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FuzzyDuck

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Short answer. Yes they do. Though look at the numbers. There must be a thousand men for every woman on here.

Using the chat rooms is a good way to start something. Or even direct messaging someone.

Obviously there's also the fact that whilst you may think someone is a woman... Are they?

The forum posts started by some beautiful looking picture who then doesn't respond to anything from anyone, who knows what they are.
 

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Short answer. Yes they do. Though look at the numbers. There must be a thousand men for every woman on here.

Using the chat rooms is a good way to start something. Or even direct messaging someone.

Obviously there's also the fact that whilst you may think someone is a woman... Are they?

The forum posts started by some beautiful looking picture who then doesn't respond to anything from anyone, who knows what they are.
You must have better luck than me, I tried the chat rooms but got nowhere and got scared as well because of a few members from last year. With my difficulties and problems, I need to be more careful than most.
 

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Short answer. Yes they do. Though look at the numbers. There must be a thousand men for every woman on here.

Using the chat rooms is a good way to start something. Or even direct messaging someone.

Obviously there's also the fact that whilst you may think someone is a woman... Are they?

The forum posts started by some beautiful looking picture who then doesn't respond to anything from anyone, who knows what they are.
Well maybe there is some hope then fuzzy duck. And I do understand what you mean and know there are so many fakes etc and I do know the ratio of men to women is crazy and the fact that most men these days are just thirsty idiots makes things even harder for the real guys to shine through !!! lol
 

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Well maybe there is some hope then fuzzy duck. And I do understand what you mean and know there are so many fakes etc and I do know the ratio of men to women is crazy and the fact that most men these days are just thirsty idiots makes things even harder for the real guys to shine through !!! lol
And I would bet that most men (sorry!) are actually cheating. Now if only their internet history gives it away.
 

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Yes ladies do reply to some posts, contribute to Forums and in some cases even agree to meet. However as mentioned by other guys there are many more men on here. The point about not reading things through with regard to the dates of posts is very valid. Having said all that at least this site is free so at least no one is paying a monthly fee or annual subscription , which I think is good. As long as you are realistic in your expectations this can be another possible option for getting to know a lady. Although dont rely on it as the only one.
 

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I find that most of the men just see a post about a woman offering blowjobs or wanting to meet on Friday night, accompanied with a picture of a pair of tits and go straight in to reply mode without realising the following:

1 - The original post is well over a year old
2 - The original poster was last seen about 10 minutes after they registered well over a year ago or they’ve deleted their account
3 - The picture and original posters profile picture is most likely to be stolen from a porn site or from an OnlyFans account

When Saucy Susan from the Midlands posts that she’s looking for a gangbang at her local Premier Inn this Saturday, and then the next day deletes her account, this eventually gets pointed out. What annoys me is when it’s been pointed out that she is no longer an active user, there are still several replies 2, 3 even 4 years later in the hope that she’s still looking for that gangbang! For the record, if you don’t know if the account is still active, if the users name is black rather than red, they are no longer on here.

It would be so much better if all posts associated with a deleted account also delete
 

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I find that most of the men just see a post about a woman offering blowjobs or wanting to meet on Friday night, accompanied with a picture of a pair of tits and go straight in to reply mode without realising the following:

1 - The original post is well over a year old
2 - The original poster was last seen about 10 minutes after they registered well over a year ago or they’ve deleted their account
3 - The picture and original posters profile picture is most likely to be stolen from a porn site or from an OnlyFans account

When Saucy Susan from the Midlands posts that she’s looking for a gangbang at her local Premier Inn this Saturday, and then the next day deletes her account, this eventually gets pointed out. What annoys me is when it’s been pointed out that she is no longer an active user, there are still several replies 2, 3 even 4 years later in the hope that she’s still looking for that gangbang! For the record, if you don’t know if the account is still active, if the users name is black rather than red, they are no longer on here.

It would be so much better if all posts associated with a deleted account also delete
Which Premier Inn?
 

redginge

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I find that most of the men just see a post about a woman offering blowjobs or wanting to meet on Friday night, accompanied with a picture of a pair of tits and go straight in to reply mode without realising the following:

1 - The original post is well over a year old
2 - The original poster was last seen about 10 minutes after they registered well over a year ago or they’ve deleted their account
3 - The picture and original posters profile picture is most likely to be stolen from a porn site or from an OnlyFans account

When Saucy Susan from the Midlands posts that she’s looking for a gangbang at her local Premier Inn this Saturday, and then the next day deletes her account, this eventually gets pointed out. What annoys me is when it’s been pointed out that she is no longer an active user, there are still several replies 2, 3 even 4 years later in the hope that she’s still looking for that gangbang! For the record, if you don’t know if the account is still active, if the users name is black rather than red, they are no longer on here.

It would be so much better if all posts associated with a deleted account also delete

I would jokingly say “want to give me a sex/blowjob/whatever?” But I know I’ll get dropped a lot quicker than flying out of an airplane without a parachute!

As for photos, the amount of men that just give an instantaneous reply of “darling, wanna fuck tonight? I’m so hard for you” or words to that effect really does put me off from a lot of threads and the unwanted attention. I don’t honestly know how you deal with it. Also, I had to ask someone on Facebook the same question whether it’s the same problem on all social media platforms - spoiler alert, it is.

What is even more frustrating is that a lot of these men really do cause a lot of damage to women and it’s little wonder that they delete their account the next day. It knackers my chances of getting anywhere, let alone theirs. It also shows how low their IQ actually is, well single figures if not in the minus range (basically, calling them unintelligent).

But then searching the forum and responding to a thread that’s 4 years old for a gangbang is a pretty thick thing to do.
 

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I find that most of the men just see a post about a woman offering blowjobs or wanting to meet on Friday night, accompanied with a picture of a pair of tits and go straight in to reply mode without realising the following:

1 - The original post is well over a year old
2 - The original poster was last seen about 10 minutes after they registered well over a year ago or they’ve deleted their account
3 - The picture and original posters profile picture is most likely to be stolen from a porn site or from an OnlyFans account

When Saucy Susan from the Midlands posts that she’s looking for a gangbang at her local Premier Inn this Saturday, and then the next day deletes her account, this eventually gets pointed out. What annoys me is when it’s been pointed out that she is no longer an active user, there are still several replies 2, 3 even 4 years later in the hope that she’s still looking for that gangbang! For the record, if you don’t know if the account is still active, if the users name is black rather than red, they are no longer on here.

It would be so much better if all posts associated with a deleted account also delete
I saw a fake female post with a fake pic taken from internet and even after posting it was fake guys still were messaging lmfao x it’s the many that ruin it for the few lol
 

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@redginge - another one that men all go for are those numerous accounts where the girls are fairly young, late teens to early twenties, and all work in stables. They post threads like ‘Want to know what happened when I had to use the men’s toilets at the pub and I’m in a short skirt?’ or ‘Mucking out the horses with the new stable boy’ and they give you a brief introduction to a story and don’t reply to anyone who asks what happened. In other words, all a load of bullshit, most probably made up by one person using multiple accounts. Photos probably stolen as well!
 
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Franglo

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Why would a woman want to post on a website like this when they are likely to see the kind of comments I have already seen, and I am new here.

I like to see pics of naked women just as much as most men, and I would love to fuck and suck and whatever else with them, but show a bit of respect and don't be so crude.
 

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A lot of men on here clearly either don’t know how to talk to women properly and don’t know what year or is. They think with what’s between there legs and not what’s between there ears (although that probably just thin air).
 

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Why would a woman want to post on a website like this when they are likely to see the kind of comments I have already seen, and I am new here.

I like to see pics of naked women just as much as most men, and I would love to fuck and suck and whatever else with them, but show a bit of respect and don't be so crude.
You know, I am glad someone new actually said this, I think this is more of a society issue than an issue with just some users.

I mean, if I was a woman on here, I wouldn’t want to meet any bloke and there are far too many blokes with massive egos that need taking down a peg or 2.
 

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A lot of men on here clearly either don’t know how to talk to women properly and don’t know what year or is. They think with what’s between there legs and not what’s between there ears (although that probably just thin air).
Hence my comment, my way of calling them thick, an IQ in the minus range (-99 anyone?).
Trouble is, those with single digit IQs still don’t get it.
 
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