Plucking up the courage

[Jamesinmedway]

Hi all,

I am brand new to the forum and brand new to any of this.

I have finally plucked up the courage to send a request out to fulfil a fantastic of mine.
I am a straight married man, but I over the last year or so I have found myself wanking over trans porn and I now find myself wanting a real life experience with a trans woman.
To be honest, I dont know what I could do for you I.E im not sure if I could suck a dick and I defiantly couldn't be fucked.
Sorry if that puts anyone off, but I would rather say it how it is than disappoint.
Is the any trans ladies in the Medway area that would be willing to meet a nervous straight bloke for a one off? Maybe a car meet? I cant accommodate for obvious reasons.

 

[DesertRat]

I am in the same situation although prepared to do anything as something that's left to do before I get too old and regret it.

 

[Jamesinmedway]

I wish this thing had a place for private conversation. Maybe it does ? May I ask what you are curious about ? Did you just get addicted to porn or is there something deeper at the heart of it ? No one knows you here. And as my granny used to say - 'Like an infected wound, the poison is better out than in'. It nerver wracking for you all of this. But human sexuality is so way more expansive than we are conditioned to believe. Don't be hard on yourself. At least express how you feel - even if confused - and take from there. Others will help out too from various perspectives. You are not alone and nothing wrong with you. You are fnding out who you are as a human being.

Hi,

Thanks for the reply.
I dont think I am confused sexually, maybe I am?
I consider myself straight but found the 'tabo' thrill of looking at trans porn exciting. When I first started watching it I would only enjoy it if I couldn't see the trans ladies cock, I would like watching her give him a blow job or something. Now, I like watching her get fucked too. It has got to the point that I want to try it for myself.
It may also be that the porn has given me a false sense of what it will actually be like to have a sexual encounter with a trans woman.
I have been toying with the idea of paying an escort, that way, there will be no expectations from her, but either way the urge to try it is getting big enough for me to try and instigate an encounter.

 

[Jamesinmedway]

Fantasy and reality are two different things. You are already on a slippery slope. Is it cause she is trans you think her not a real woman - so you are not really cheating on your wife ?


I don't know and not judging. I ask hard questions though.

Why not just pay a female escort and then free yourself of any trauma of being confronted with a dick ?

You sound like most - need to spice up the sex life - intimacy. People crave intimacy. Sexual intimacy - couples I mean.

You might end up spending the night with a trans or female escort and feel worse. Or get it out of your system. Watching porn is not good for anyone. It fills their heads full of crap. Stuff that for most part is unrealistic. It is also highly addictive.

Would you like to buy your wife a big muscle man for the night for her birthday and you take the video ?


This just popped up on my laptop. Honestly. I am single so irrelevant to me. But I believe most human beings - women AND men crave love and true intimacy and yes let it get kinky. It's healthy.

I honestly dont know the reasons, but I do know that I find trans woman so sexy and the desire to have a sexual encounter with one has become so great that I want it to happen

 

[DesertRat]

The escort way is what I am looking at. At last minute I can cancel if I don't feel like going through. Maybe just something I need to do and have the memories and no regrets I didn't have the experience.

 

[SalPablo]

Am also married, but I love trans, love putting a pair of tights with heels and getting fucked and sucking cock as long as it’s both ways hiwever

 

[Markyt71]

Go down the escort route. Best way. Non judgemental girls. Accommodating. Funny. Sexy. Clean. First time I was unbelievably nervous. Never had a cock before. After about half an hour. Had her in my mouth, up my arse. We fucked for a good hour. Trans girl cumming in your mouth. Awesome. Best 200 quid I ever spent. Seen her now on and off for 2yrs. Also had a threesome with her and her girlfriend. You have to try it.

 

[sissysyd]

Hi all,

I am brand new to the forum and brand new to any of this.

I have finally plucked up the courage to send a request out to fulfil a fantastic of mine.
I am a straight married man, but I over the last year or so I have found myself wanking over trans porn and I now find myself wanting a real life experience with a trans woman.
To be honest, I dont know what I could do for you I.E im not sure if I could suck a dick and I defiantly couldn't be fucked.
Sorry if that puts anyone off, but I would rather say it how it is than disappoint.
Is the any trans ladies in the Medway area that would be willing to meet a nervous straight bloke for a one off? Maybe a car meet? I cant accommodate for obvious reasons.

Hi there I am quite New to this too and I love wearing girl's underwear and want to be a good obedient sissy

 

[Happychap]

Hi all,

I am brand new to the forum and brand new to any of this.

I have finally plucked up the courage to send a request out to fulfil a fantastic of mine.
I am a straight married man, but I over the last year or so I have found myself wanking over trans porn and I now find myself wanting a real life experience with a trans woman.
To be honest, I dont know what I could do for you I.E im not sure if I could suck a dick and I defiantly couldn't be fucked.
Sorry if that puts anyone off, but I would rather say it how it is than disappoint.
Is the any trans ladies in the Medway area that would be willing to meet a nervous straight bloke for a one off? Maybe a car meet? I cant accommodate for obvious reasons.

You sound like me many years ago … nothing matters, we are dead forever. Go for it . Trannys are wonderful.

 

[willpta]

Go down the escort route. Best way. Non judgemental girls. Accommodating. Funny. Sexy. Clean. First time I was unbelievably nervous. Never had a cock before. After about half an hour. Had her in my mouth, up my arse. We fucked for a good hour. Trans girl cumming in your mouth. Awesome. Best 200 quid I ever spent. Seen her now on and off for 2yrs. Also had a threesome with her and her girlfriend. You have to try it.

Any chance you can give me her details?

 

[Markyt71]

If your genuinely interested that won't be a problem.

 

[mjA82]

Hi all,

I am brand new to the forum and brand new to any of this.

I have finally plucked up the courage to send a request out to fulfil a fantastic of mine.
I am a straight married man, but I over the last year or so I have found myself wanking over trans porn and I now find myself wanting a real life experience with a trans woman.
To be honest, I dont know what I could do for you I.E im not sure if I could suck a dick and I defiantly couldn't be fucked.
Sorry if that puts anyone off, but I would rather say it how it is than disappoint.
Is the any trans ladies in the Medway area that would be willing to meet a nervous straight bloke for a one off? Maybe a car meet? I cant accommodate for obvious reasons.

I’ve found myself wanking over trans porn lately and some of the girls are stunning!
For me it’s not about the dick, I don’t want to suck one or be fucked, never been into guys and I know I’m not gay. There’s just something about an attractive trans girl that I find a turn on and I know I’d have them blow me and me fuck them.
Let us know how you get on

 

[mancburycouple]

Any chance you can give me her details?

I'll have her details..

 

[JohnM]

Hi all,

I am brand new to the forum and brand new to any of this.

I have finally plucked up the courage to send a request out to fulfil a fantastic of mine.
I am a straight married man, but I over the last year or so I have found myself wanking over trans porn and I now find myself wanting a real life experience with a trans woman.
To be honest, I dont know what I could do for you I.E im not sure if I could suck a dick and I defiantly couldn't be fucked.
Sorry if that puts anyone off, but I would rather say it how it is than disappoint.
Is the any trans ladies in the Medway area that would be willing to meet a nervous straight bloke for a one off? Maybe a car meet? I cant accommodate for obvious reasons.

In a similar space not sure if I’m bicurious or the ts attraction is different. For me it’s an exciting avenue to explore. @Markyt71 im looking into that now. But thanks for sharing, I’m sure there are many on here feeling similar urges

 

[mjA82]

You sound like me many years ago … nothing matters, we are dead forever. Go for it . Trannys are wonderful.

Sounds like my outlook, sex should be sex without labels

In a similar space not sure if I’m bicurious or the ts attraction is different. For me it’s an exciting avenue to explore. @Markyt71 im looking into that now. But thanks for sharing, I’m sure there are many on here feeling similar urges

In a similar space not sure if I’m bicurious or the ts attraction is different. For me it’s an exciting avenue to explore. @Markyt71 im looking into that now. But thanks for sharing, I’m sure there are many on here feeling similar urges

I’ve wondered the same thing but I don’t look at guys or dicks and feel a desire so I'm certain I'm not bi or gay curious. Im not sure what it is about trans porn but I’m watching it and I’m turned on. Think i’d try some things with a trans girl, couldn’t suck it or be fucked but I’d like to fuck and be sucked by one.

 

[willpta]

If your genuinely interested that won't be a problem.

Yes please do

 

[bi-cd-uk]

would this help?

 

[Markyt71]

Wow. Hot. Love the lingerie. If I were with you for some fun I'd definitely want you wearing that. Nice

 

[bi-cd-uk]

ty Mark

 

[sissysyd]

would this help?

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Definitely