My hubby cant stay erect long enough

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Hi guys, maybe yous can help me with some advice. I'm married 18 years , im 50 and my hubby is 51. For the last year or so my hubby has struggled to keep an erection during vaginal sex or he cums to soon, like when im only getting warmed up, which is quiet frustrating for me and probably him too. I prefer to be on top during sex, but he finds it hard to push in ,in this position as his Cock doesn't feel hard enough or if he does push in his Cock feels like it's pushed back or slips out to easily during sex. His Cock just doesn't feel like it's fully erect, although if I suck it , it gets fully erect no problem.
He is a fit and active guy goes to the gym and loves running, his cock.is average( 6 inch,) but Its always done the job up until a year ago. So have any of you any tips on how to improve our sex life by keeping him hard . It maybe I've just burned out his cock.and I need a new one lol.
All advice welcome xxx
 

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Hi guys, maybe yous can help me with some advice. I'm married 18 years , im 50 and my hubby is 51. For the last year or so my hubby has struggled to keep an erection during vaginal sex or he cums to soon, like when im only getting warmed up, which is quiet frustrating for me and probably him too. I prefer to be on top during sex, but he finds it hard to push in ,in this position as his Cock doesn't feel hard enough or if he does push in his Cock feels like it's pushed back or slips out to easily during sex. His Cock just doesn't feel like it's fully erect, although if I suck it , it gets fully erect no problem.
He is a fit and active guy goes to the gym and loves running, his cock.is average( 6 inch,) but Its always done the job up until a year ago. So have any of you any tips on how to improve our sex life by keeping him hard . It maybe I've just burned out his cock.and I need a new one lol.
All advice welcome xxx
Mmm very Hot picture looks very inviting and yummy x
 

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Gorgeous pic , maybe you need to spice Ur sex life up , maybe as u say get another cock and let him watch or join in, u obviously love him but we all need good sex. DM me if u want to chat further Phil x
 

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Hi guys, maybe yous can help me with some advice. I'm married 18 years , im 50 and my hubby is 51. For the last year or so my hubby has struggled to keep an erection during vaginal sex or he cums to soon, like when im only getting warmed up, which is quiet frustrating for me and probably him too. I prefer to be on top during sex, but he finds it hard to push in ,in this position as his Cock doesn't feel hard enough or if he does push in his Cock feels like it's pushed back or slips out to easily during sex. His Cock just doesn't feel like it's fully erect, although if I suck it , it gets fully erect no problem.
He is a fit and active guy goes to the gym and loves running, his cock.is average( 6 inch,) but Its always done the job up until a year ago. So have any of you any tips on how to improve our sex life by keeping him hard . It maybe I've just burned out his cock.and I need a new one lol.
All advice welcome xxx
Evening sexy lady, unfortunately it happens to some men maybe try Viagra see if that helps but u never know introducing another man might help not just u he might also get off on it
 

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I know it may be embarrassing for him but get him to see his doctor for a check up get them to do blood tests and ask them to check his testosterone levels at yhe same time. Could be a medical condition or his hormones have dropped with age. Also is he taking anything at all medicine supplements etc if so unless prescribed by a doctor get him to stop taking them for a few weeks and see if that helps.

I know it’s not the reply you was looking for but as you say your happy woth your sec life when he worked properly so rather than look elsewhere why not fix old reliable
 

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Hi guys, maybe yous can help me with some advice. I'm married 18 years , im 50 and my hubby is 51. For the last year or so my hubby has struggled to keep an erection during vaginal sex or he cums to soon, like when im only getting warmed up, which is quiet frustrating for me and probably him too. I prefer to be on top during sex, but he finds it hard to push in ,in this position as his Cock doesn't feel hard enough or if he does push in his Cock feels like it's pushed back or slips out to easily during sex. His Cock just doesn't feel like it's fully erect, although if I suck it , it gets fully erect no problem.
He is a fit and active guy goes to the gym and loves running, his cock.is average( 6 inch,) but Its always done the job up until a year ago. So have any of you any tips on how to improve our sex life by keeping him hard . It maybe I've just burned out his cock.and I need a new one lol.
All advice welcome xxx
Have you asked him what can you do to help he out.
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Maybe being a shared wife with he knowing is what he really wants you to be..
 

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Honestly work with him, its a issue that us blokes go through, and its embarrassing but with support from you he can work through it, spice things up be more spontaneous with sex, don't stick to one time and try some outfits and toys
 

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There’s always going to be a disparity between guys and us. (Waiting for the guys to defend their ego’s after this bit) Biologically a man generally orgasms between 5-7 mins where ladies are 18-22mins. Also we get multiple goes at cumming with no rest needed yet guys have to have a recovery period between orgasms.
This does put pressure on guys, even if they don’t realise it.
If you like on top but he is loosing his erection, give his brain something to jump start the messages to his cock.
Kissing, dirty talk directly aimed at him in that moment, doing something to yourself as you ride him. Anything to keep his brain off the thoughts of going soft on you again,
If he needs to feel,like he is doing something, lift your body up slightly so he has to flex his hips to push into you, that keeps blood in the area and he is excited he is doing something… also, an upthrust is powerfull…. Get it right and your mind will be blown lol!

After all that, if nothing works…… when your are really desperate for a damn good fucking….. just fuck other guys, that’s what I do lol! X
 

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There’s always going to be a disparity between guys and us. (Waiting for the guys to defend their ego’s after this bit) Biologically a man generally orgasms between 5-7 mins where ladies are 18-22mins. Also we get multiple goes at cumming with no rest needed yet guys have to have a recovery period between orgasms.
This does put pressure on guys, even if they don’t realise it.
If you like on top but he is loosing his erection, give his brain something to jump start the messages to his cock.
Kissing, dirty talk directly aimed at him in that moment, doing something to yourself as you ride him. Anything to keep his brain off the thoughts of going soft on you again,
If he needs to feel,like he is doing something, lift your body up slightly so he has to flex his hips to push into you, that keeps blood in the area and he is excited he is doing something… also, an upthrust is powerfull…. Get it right and your mind will be blown lol!

After all that, if nothing works…… when your are really desperate for a damn good fucking….. just fuck other guys, that’s what I do lol! X
Interesting what you said about his brain, I have heard that from friends of mine who are married, you may want to get his thrungeon tube jet-washed... and good luck too..!!

sarah
x
 

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There’s always going to be a disparity between guys and us. (Waiting for the guys to defend their ego’s after this bit) Biologically a man generally orgasms between 5-7 mins where ladies are 18-22mins. Also we get multiple goes at cumming with no rest needed yet guys have to have a recovery period between orgasms.
This does put pressure on guys, even if they don’t realise it.
If you like on top but he is loosing his erection, give his brain something to jump start the messages to his cock.
Kissing, dirty talk directly aimed at him in that moment, doing something to yourself as you ride him. Anything to keep his brain off the thoughts of going soft on you again,
If he needs to feel,like he is doing something, lift your body up slightly so he has to flex his hips to push into you, that keeps blood in the area and he is excited he is doing something… also, an upthrust is powerfull…. Get it right and your mind will be blown lol!

After all that, if nothing works…… when your are really desperate for a damn good fucking….. just fuck other guys, that’s what I do lol! X
Good lady.
It's you would like to try ladies come and chat with Linda.xx
 

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If no heart conditions , get him to buy generic viagra, only works if turned on and right dose , just firms it up very well indeed, my missus like that fact , help with blood flow , not hornyness, he will deffo enjoy the outcome and so will you.
 

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Hi guys, maybe yous can help me with some advice. I'm married 18 years , im 50 and my hubby is 51. For the last year or so my hubby has struggled to keep an erection during vaginal sex or he cums to soon, like when im only getting warmed up, which is quiet frustrating for me and probably him too. I prefer to be on top during sex, but he finds it hard to push in ,in this position as his Cock doesn't feel hard enough or if he does push in his Cock feels like it's pushed back or slips out to easily during sex. His Cock just doesn't feel like it's fully erect, although if I suck it , it gets fully erect no problem.
He is a fit and active guy goes to the gym and loves running, his cock.is average( 6 inch,) but Its always done the job up until a year ago. So have any of you any tips on how to improve our sex life by keeping him hard . It maybe I've just burned out his cock.and I need a new one lol.
All advice welcome xxx
Sounds like you need a younger cock that gets Rick hard inside you lady. If that’s something that you would like then feel free to reach out. I’d be happy to help x
 
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