Linda74

I am a married mum of 2. I am a happy soul within myself. I have an unusual marriage in the sense my husband and I aren't intimate, he has Diabetes and that has caused him a lot of other issues including becoming impotent. I have dated since 2004 and have dated both men and women, doesn't mean just because you say hi I will date you though. My husband is never present nor does he enjoy it but we have very little other avenues. I haven't been with a woman for 6 years and only met 4 in 16 years but I guess that classes me as bisexual. I have met 8 guys of which 5 I would class as boyfriends.

I was once told by a very good friend that "I shouldn't feel bad about my desires as someones wants, desires and fantasy's are someone else's taboos. If people don't get why you like something then that's their choice. Just always be you and never change."

I love that advice and love what it meant to me.

I have come here to find myself if I am fair and to understand why I like what I like