People who like me, like me. But I think I also annoy a lot of people. And I can be quite mean or cruel to people as well. Though I try not to do that anymore.
Certainly...if a partner is not a person you want to have sex with, they probably arent a person you want to talk about sex with either...but talking about sex also requires a surprising amount of self understanding and empathy that probably many people haven't fully realized in themselves...