Language barrier with sex partner

Will you enjoy sex more if your partner doesn't speak your native language?

  • Yes

  • No

  • I will not have sex with such a partner


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JessYorks

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Yes, and it can be delightful.

Not having the same first language, learning about each other through touch and response is a wondrous thing.
 

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As I am more drawn to women from across the world these days I would love for my next relationship to be someone with a different first language. I think it would be great to rely only on instinct and reactions while getting to know each other in that arena.
 

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As I am more drawn to women from across the world these days I would love for my next relationship to be someone with a different first language. I think it would be great to rely only on instinct and reactions while getting to know each other in that arena.
would you learn a foreign language for the sake of this relationship?
 

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Have you ever sex with a foreigner?
oh i love your threads.

I do think you should add the option of [been there done that, language didn't really factor in to the quality of sex]

Men don't really listen anyway, so its probably better if they don't understand what their partner is saying.
I have found though, having a sex partner who only communicates in a language I don't yet know has been motivating to learn that language.
 

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oh i love your threads
And why do I feel like I was caught red-handed?
I have found though, having a sex partner who only communicates in a language I don't yet know has been motivating to learn that language
Learn the language and destroy all the magic of such sex? I personally have not had such experience, I can only guess.
 

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Well....As you know, English is not my native language, which is rather obvious in my written language as well as when I speak.
 

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Ah, breakfast. The true language of desire, there.

I mostly dated foreign girls in my teens and early twenties, but they were trying to learn my language. Even though I'm not actually a Brit, I suppose I kind of had that 'Brit abroad' problem. A language barrier can make certain... activities quite fun, but can also be a bit of an issue for others. Hard to say either way, tbh, but I definitely wouldn't vote for 'never'. What's the fun in that?
 
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