Straight guy with bi fantasy ...how do i get my girl involved

MadMick84

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Hey im a 35 straight guy whos about 10% bi! i only fancy women but i do occasionally enjoy being with a man (in the right setting).

Im in a relationship and i love my girl dearly, the last thing i want is to make her do something shes not comfortable with or jeopardise our relationship. I dont have the biggest dick and over the years ive had to learn different ways to please women the end result of this is i can make any girl scream with my tongue and get a squirt or to with my fingers! admittinglly thats harder with a one night stand as women can be complex over thinkers, don't get me wrong if a girl can relax i can get an O!

The thing is that buy doing this over the years ive somehow become aroused by pleasing men. I dont find men attractive, i only want relationship with a girl and indeed im in a good one. however when the mood takes me i hook up with men on the apps. This is normally a let down and not for-filling plus i refuse to cheat on my GF. So instead when im on my own i find myself masturbating to gay/trans porn.

I feel like im not being honest with my GF and i dont want to scare her off! she said shes open to anything nut other people and pissing. I think she could be oping to an other partner though but its going to take work. First i need her to be comfortable with my bi side, safe clean and to know its her i fancy. second i want her to get pleasure out off it shes my queen and will always be giving attention.

At the weekend we went away and i managed to get her sitting on my face and 69 ing which she climaxed from i can get her close during sex but have to finish her with my hands sometimes she squirts nut only if shes drunk. I can see she likes to be in charge i see her looking when im down there and she sometime wraps her leg around me stopping me from backing off and sets the pace by grinding me. Shes even started to play with my bum she as she told me that i can only enter hers if she gets mine thinking id say no. she fingered me and i forgot to finger her!

I know she likes it and likes me being kinky but i know she wouldn't say yes to somone else getting involved even though it would tern her on.

She'd question my sexuality and how much i find her attractive she also be worried about keeping things private. I also think it would make her explore her bi side she gets chatted up by girls all the time and admitted it turns her on but shes always been scared. Same as me shes straight with bi tendencies.

How do i get her to explore this kinky side whilst keeping her confident and knowing that i love her an want her. My fantasy is to have her involved and taking part but i worry that me being with a man around her would freak her out.

As I say its the act that turns me on i dont find men attractive, never wanted a relationship with a man and dont kiss men but i have giving head and been both way and enjoyed it. Also been with a trans girl in singapoor but she was only passive Just want some to take me and my girl and to lick her clean after.

nothing but casual meet with guy and probably only once,
 

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Hey im a 35 straight guy whos about 10% bi! i only fancy women but i do occasionally enjoy being with a man (in the right setting).

Im in a relationship and i love my girl dearly, the last thing i want is to make her do something shes not comfortable with or jeopardise our relationship. I dont have the biggest dick and over the years ive had to learn different ways to please women the end result of this is i can make any girl scream with my tongue and get a squirt or to with my fingers! admittinglly thats harder with a one night stand as women can be complex over thinkers, don't get me wrong if a girl can relax i can get an O!

The thing is that buy doing this over the years ive somehow become aroused by pleasing men. I dont find men attractive, i only want relationship with a girl and indeed im in a good one. however when the mood takes me i hook up with men on the apps. This is normally a let down and not for-filling plus i refuse to cheat on my GF. So instead when im on my own i find myself masturbating to gay/trans porn.

I feel like im not being honest with my GF and i dont want to scare her off! she said shes open to anything nut other people and pissing. I think she could be oping to an other partner though but its going to take work. First i need her to be comfortable with my bi side, safe clean and to know its her i fancy. second i want her to get pleasure out off it shes my queen and will always be giving attention.

At the weekend we went away and i managed to get her sitting on my face and 69 ing which she climaxed from i can get her close during sex but have to finish her with my hands sometimes she squirts nut only if shes drunk. I can see she likes to be in charge i see her looking when im down there and she sometime wraps her leg around me stopping me from backing off and sets the pace by grinding me. Shes even started to play with my bum she as she told me that i can only enter hers if she gets mine thinking id say no. she fingered me and i forgot to finger her!

I know she likes it and likes me being kinky but i know she wouldn't say yes to somone else getting involved even though it would tern her on.

She'd question my sexuality and how much i find her attractive she also be worried about keeping things private. I also think it would make her explore her bi side she gets chatted up by girls all the time and admitted it turns her on but shes always been scared. Same as me shes straight with bi tendencies.

How do i get her to explore this kinky side whilst keeping her confident and knowing that i love her an want her. My fantasy is to have her involved and taking part but i worry that me being with a man around her would freak her out.

As I say its the act that turns me on i dont find men attractive, never wanted a relationship with a man and dont kiss men but i have giving head and been both way and enjoyed it. Also been with a trans girl in singapoor but she was only passive Just want some to take me and my girl and to lick her clean after.

nothing but casual meet with guy and probably only once,
Just be honest with her I guess and make sure she knows what you mean about it she might be open to it but you’ll never know unless you talk to her
 
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